Woman Christian Dating In Her Thirties

The Get Married In Your Thirties Guide

These days my mind turns to friends looking for the one in their thirties (and forties). With increased personal & professional experience, time for emotional development and financial growth many in this demographic know they are ready to marry. They’ve been READY! Unfortunately, avenues of social connection have often diminished. I was fundamentally struck by …

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Single Woman Jumping Over A Date

Five Reasons You're Not Married

Ever Asked The Question… “Why Am I Not Married?” Is it me?   Must be them…   We all know our courting systems are fractured, yet somehow people in our circles still manage to make it to the altar.  Maybe you’ve mastered the everything-is-fine-face yet still wonder how did I get here? WHY? A Toxic Tonic …

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Beautiful Houston Lady

How Will I Know?

What is it about Whitney Houston’s songs?   As a youngster I remember cruising our suburban streets in my father’s convertible jamming out to her pop-jam melodies, the passionate lyrics serving to preview the fervent emotion of  upcoming love relationships. She wanted to know If he really loved her.   There’s an intensity emanating from …

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The Day After The Break-Up

After the conversation winds down, you reach for the car door and your hand slides uneasily into the handle. Looking back toward the one who you thought would be a fixture in your future, it startles you to realize they are rapidly receding into your past.  You’re extremely disheartened. Is this really the end? Heartbreak. …

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A Single Woman Looking Out Window

How To Spot A Marriage Ready Man

Where is this relationship going?  After crashing and burning several times, you realize that much of a relationship’s potential is set by the predetermined objective of each partner.   As they enter the relationship they inevitably bring a vision for how it should end.   And remember every relationship terminates; it either blossoms into a marriage or ends …

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Lonely Woman Waiting For A Call

The Ask

Everything hinges on the ask. In a time when compatible men and women routinely slip past each other without so much as a hint of an ask, stand out by employing this powerful technique.   There is nothing new about the ask.  The ancients understood it, as did the romantics of the previous centuries.   But many men …

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Young man leading his date

The Male Lead: Tough Conversations Pt. 1

The entire course of a relationship is steered by a couple of dramatic phrases.   In the world of romantic connection the ascent or demise of a burgeoning relationship can be attributed to a few climactic statements.   You know the key lines that change the course of the entire plot in the romantic comedies.    These …

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Magic Romance Juice

The Secret Sauce Of Dating

An ounce of initiative is worth five pounds of intention The dating landscape is littered with hundreds of thousands of fallen intentions strewn by the roadside. Introductions not made, phone calls not placed, offers not extended. Relationship potential unrealized. All from lack of the secret sauce.  A connection seems so close, but the electrical current doesn’t flow. …

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Getting Past The Priors

Everyone has them. People who’ve come into our lives and occupied large swaths of our heart space.  We may have known them as a friend, boyfriend / girlfriend, or even husband / wife.   Sometimes we may have not technically left the friend zone with a long-term crush.  Bottom line, they entered into our souls …

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Sign showing a new dating life

Ten Places To Meet The One

There’s an art to finding your mate.   It’s not enough to just wander aimlessly and assume that he or she will bump right into you.   You must learn to look and locate in profitable places.    That’s the difference maker.   So here we profile ten great places to find your mate. Business – Charity Networking Non-profits of …

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Christian Dating Book

Book Glimpse: The First Thirty Days

She radiates wife potential and you want to do this right.  He appears to be a prototype of your dream husband.   This time you’re not playing around; the first thirty days have officially begun.  What should be your next steps to move this ball downfield?   You succeeded in the flirt zone, now how do …

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Christian Couple Bike Journey

Twenty Four Reasons To Get Married

Since the crows of culture have supplied so many reasons not to get married, I decided that a proper response was necessary.   The time has come for a volley of reasons to get married.   The blessings are timeless and true, the fruit of a committed love-union is sweet and enduring! The Marriage Pursuit community will always be …

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Man Asking Woman Out Date

National Ask Her Out Day

The idea is simple.   What if we collectively directed our social energy towards creating a relational movement at the dawn of the year?   What if on Friday Feb 7th thousands of single adult men throughout the world took a strong step of initiative?   The simple act of asking a lady out, a promising …

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Dating Couple Sailing Together

New Year: New Dating Outlook

One of our guiding principles is that men and women can both take positive, prudent action towards getting married.   THERE ARE THINGS YOU CAN DO TO MOVE FORWARD! In that spirit here are four New Year’s boosters to aid you in your quest. A New Outlook We love the opportunity that the New Year …

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Waiting Wisely: Strategery For Women

Waiting may be one of the least popular words in all of the English dictionary.   We abhor even the slightest delays as evidenced by our deep disdain for traffic jams and holding rooms outside medical offices.  In fact, the only instance where waiting registers positively is when it buffers us from some dreadful errand.   Otherwise …

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Heart shaped love.

We We're Looking For Love

The 2014 season’s The Bachelor finale was a major letdown.   The studio audience assembled in LA while millions of Americans tuned in to watch the D-Day footage of Juan Pablo’s rocky season.   Our reward?  A clumsy dismissal, a flimsy rose offer, and the world’s most awkward love seat. We were looking for love!  …

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Preparing to Dating A Christian Man

When Marriage Isn't Pursued

What happens when marriage isn’t pursued? The majestic moment stalls and mystical celebration dances are postponed.  When marriage isn’t pursued intimacy is quenched by other fountains while sexual desires push for alternative outlets. When marriage isn’t pursued loneliness adds to our selfish inclinations, and family circles don’t expand.  When marriage isn’t pursued names stay the …

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Trust in dating relationships

Become Better At Dating First Impressions

Let’s face it, initial connection is the springboard from which any marriage is built.   Every love laced wedding ceremony traces back to a first time meeting of two single adults.   Often those two people know little to nothing about each other.   Trust in dating relationships must be built.  And the first test …

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The One Thing You Must Learn

Recently I’ve realized an important truth, so transformative that once understood and properly put into to play our marriage pursuit market will be fundamentally and permanently altered.   A critical concept that’s long been missing, so integral to getting married that thousands of couples have been held back back by this deficiency.   What could …

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